eveglass: (hug me)
Yesterday goes down as one of the worst days I've experienced in a while, mostly (and unfortunately) caused by me doing stupid things that exacerbated other situations already existing. In a single day, I managed to stress / frustrate / drain the two men I hold dearest, severely inconvenience three other people, and potentially mess up a job offer at my absolute first choice job (Dawson humanities teaching).

Today has thus far been only marginally better.

(On the other hand, I just discovered roses Marc left in my room without telling me, and my mom bought me a pair of fuzzy slippers. Both these are very good things.)

Still... hugs very much appreciated.
Today at Massey, one of my friends came up to me and demanded a kiss. I'm making progress! Yay!

Other exciting things today:
- French table at Massey! J'ai parlé français pendant deux heures (à peu près) ce soir. J'espère que je n'oublie pas tous mes mots.

- Blackadder! One of the guys was doing a screening of Blackadder Goes Forth. He showed 3 episodes, though I only watched one before heading home.

- Religion! After the prompting of an e-friend (ie: someone I've been trading emails with for a few days), I embarked on a project I've long joked-about but never seriously considered putting to paper. That is, the Book of Julie. It's just a fun parody I've come up with to show the ridiculous circular reasoning of the Bible ("The Bible is the Word of God! It says so, right here in the Bible!") If anyone's interested, I'll post what I've got so far. If not, it'll stay safely in my head, computer files, and emails for the time being.

And that's it. Time for bed. G'night all!
Tonight was Thanksgiving dinner at Massey. I helped prepare food (and by "helped," I mean "grated cheese," "strained turkey drippings," and "washed vegetables"). Food was very, VERY tasty, and very, VERY plentiful. It seems like eating turkey makes Julie mumble mumble... maybe tired too. There were lots of desserts, and they were tasty. Dufflet pastries are now officially the nemesis of my attempting to lose weight.

I washed many dishes after (I'm GOOD at washing dishes, damnit!), and I think the Massey kitchen is the cleanest it's been in weeks.

My plan to introduce hugging at Massey is meeting with mixed results. Some people (notably ones from Europe) are really gung-ho, and others are... well... not. But I shall continue on regardless. The things I do in the name of getting hugs.

Now there's a movie going on in the Massey common room. It's called (I think) "Trains, Planes, and..." I don't remember. Something else. It has Steve Martin in it. I now remember that I need to be in a certain mood to watch Steve Martin, and I am not in it. I tried to watch the movie, I truly did. But I can't. So here I am updating my LJ. I think I may go home now and relax. If you see me on MSN tonight, feel free to say "hi!"
As of today, I have been in Toronto exactly one month. It seems like a lot longer.

On the whole, my experience has been active and positive. I've been very involved at Massey, with everything from High Tables to dealing poker, non-resident committee co-chair to knitting and irish dancing. I've been to a few SCA meetings. My classes are all well underway, to the point where I've begun thinking about term paper topics. My room is (finally) set up more-or-less the way I like it. All in all, I'd say I'm mostly settled in.

The thing that bugs me most, though, is the lack of my friends and family. Though I'm on friendly terms with people here, there is no one really (at least not yet!) who I feel I can go to if I just want to chat or chill. No one with whom I've exchanged phone numbers. I've only had guests over to my place twice: once was my uncle and once was a friend of his. (Almost) no one I can go to for a running hug.

And that last one is a big problem for me. I miss hugs. I really, really do. There are one or two people here I hug when I see, but for the most part the people I hang out with are not very huggy. So no hugs, no curling up with someone to watch movies, very little playful flirting.

But, aside from those annoyances, my experience here so far has been quite positive. In large part, I think this is because of Massey. I'd have loved to live there, but at least I'll enjoy the facilities and the people to the extent I can while not living there.

And that has been Julie's Reflective Thought of the Day (tm). I now return you to your regularly scheduled LJ.
A few random things that occured over the last few days:

- I found out my score on the Latin exam was 49% -- "quite respectable" according to the Prof. (Perhaps the only time in my life a 49% on schoolwork has been called respectable.) He thinks if I do the work I shouldn't have a problem passing the exam in April. Let's hope so.

- The internet at my rez was fritzing this morning: on for a split-second, off for 5 minutes. The tease! So I did what any self-respecting addict would do: I went somewhere else where I could get a net connection. Here I am at Massey. :) If the problem is not solved by tonight, there may be no update as to how I liked Serenity until tomorrow.

- I bought my train tickets to Montreal. I'm officially arriving in Montreal Thursday night, Oct. 13 at about 9:15 pm (train 66), and leaving Monday morning, Oct. 17th at about 7 am (train 53). I should be back in time to have lunch before my 1 pm class.

- I expect many, MANY hugs when I'm in Montreal. The people here at Massey are amazing, but they're not particularly huggy. Between the two weekends I'm in town in October, I expect enough hugs and snuggles to last me the rest of the semester.

- A friend of mine has suggested that, as entertainment and a way to practice my Latin, I translate The Princess Bride, Good Omens, or HHGttG into Latin. Would anyone be interested in reading a (probably quite bad) translation of a few paragraphs of any of the above?

That is all for now. I return you to your regularly scheduled LJ.
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God how I missed hanging out with people! To everyone I saw tonight, you guys are all amazing! I feel so energized and recharged right now. I REALLY missed being around people I can flirt with and hug and cuddle with. Yay for having them again!

Yes, it is indeed 3:17 in the morning. Jetlag? Pah, I spit in the face of jetlag! (Watch me pay for this tomorrow morning...)

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