Yesterday I had a lovely time at Jing's "housecooling" party. I observed the disassembling of the "great CD wall of '08," participated in "Tea and Arguments Night 2," and consumed multiple tasty marocs. My only disappointment is that something (no idea what) was setting off my allergies and I needed to leave at the relatively early hour of 10:30.

Today I had tea with my dad, which featured deep conversation and a triple serving of food for thought. (Though, sadly, not much was actually resolved.) I also learned everything I need to know about project management in 5 minutes and one paper napkin drawing.

Tonight is Warren's tactile party, which means I get to wear silk pants and a velvet shirt. And play with Kaia. And, most likely, get massages. This makes me happy.

Onwards to that, then.
Yesterday was a long but very good day. In short: walking on the mountain (yes, in the heat), lunch, and a tour through the Jean Talon market with, among other people, my cousin from Edmonton who I haven't seen for 9 years. My step-sister introduced me to a wonderful homemade-popsicle dealer in the Jean Talon market, and I had "lulo" flavour, which tasted a bit like lime. Very refreshing on a hot day.

Also at the Jean Talon market, I finally found powdered Salep, which I'd been looking for since last Pennsic. Salep makes a hot drink that tastes like hot vanilla and is very, very tasty. The powder was a bit pricey, but at least now all that stands between me and my wonderful drink is finding the right recipe.

After all this, I went to my friend Eric's place, conquered France (well, pixellated France) and the Scythians (pixellated Scythians; didn't even ride horses), and had a lovely dinner with him and his mom.

Finally, off to the Heather Dale concert. It looked for a while like I might be the only audience member and the performance would turn into a jam session, but in the end there were about 11 people who showed up. It was a great concert; I love some of the new stuff on the new album. I'm working on getting Heather to come down to a bardic event in Albany in October, which would be very cool.

After the concert, I got to talk to Marc, for the first time since last Thursday. This makes me very, very happy.

Anyway, now to get ready for work. I'd like to go to karate tonight, but with a humidex of 41 C (that's 106 F, to all my American friends), I think I'll pass for tonight in favour of somewhere air-conditioned.
This is my first Mothers' Day since my grandmother passed away in October.

Bubby, happy Mothers' Day. I know you're watching over me. I love you.

Tidbits

May. 6th, 2008 08:42 am
1. I wrote a letter to the editor that's in the Gazette today. Highly edited, but there. (Point of note: while The Gazette asks for a daytime phone number to verify authorship, they didn't call me this time or the last time one of my letters was published. They've done it before, but not recently.)

2. I didn't get enough sleep last night. I blame my own misunderstandings, which caused me to think Marc would be home at midnight, instead of leaving Verdun at midnight (actually somewhat later). On the other hand, at least I feel functional for now. We'll see what work I wind up doing for my training today.

3. Marc leaves in less than three days. Because I'm working all week, my chances to see him are very limited. These two facts combined make me sad.

4. My mom made us dinner last night, which was very spiffed-up (at least for us): nice placemats, candlelight, wine... it was lovely. Even better: she made enough so that I have lunch for today. Thanks, Mom!

5. Lack of karate is making me feel like a slug. Un-ergonomic workstation (temporary, until I get my own desk) makes my shoulder hurt. Starting next week, it's back to the dojo for me!
First off: many thanks to Warren, Blue, and Jbash for opening their home this weekend. The party was absolutely fabulous, full of board games, cuddles, and tasty food. I'd never had a tofu scramble before, but it was mightily tasty. Also lots of good conversation, as I've come to expect from Warren's parties. I just wish I weren't allergic to cats, so I could have stayed longer.

Today I went to a funeral a little west of Brockville. It was for a woman I'd never met -- my aunt's mother -- and it was mostly just an act of familial obligation for me. The service was Christian (my aunt converted when she married my uncle), and very much focused on Jesus, as opposed to the deceased. It was quite odd for a little Jewish girl from Montreal.

The drive wasn't bad, but was quite long. My uncle (for reasons not worth going into) needed a lift to Ottawa, so we detoured north before heading back east. In short: we left the luncheon around 1:45 and only just got back to Montreal. Whew! Now I'm going to decompress and revel in *not* being in a car and *not* wearing panty hose. Yay!
Some people replace their computers every year, or every two years. I replace mine every 4-5 years, and I consider that to be a decent half-life for a computer.

My mom's had her present computer, a Mac Performa 5200, for almost 13 years. For all of that time, it's worked pretty well, if you ignore the fact that the screen went yellow a few years back. It was a good, reliable computer, chugging on for over a decade, which makes it positively ancient in PC terms. Mom doesn't really use it for much anymore, opting to use my previous computer, an iMac from the early 2000s. The only thing she really uses it for is finances.

Like I said, it's been a good, reliable computer for many years... until tonight. Tonight, when mom went to turn it on, instead of the happy mac symbol in the middle of the screen, there was a diskette with a blinking question mark inside it. Based on the manual (which my mom, amazingly, still has), this means that the computer is no longer recognizing the hard drive as a startup drive. The simple solution, according to the manual, is to find the companion CD that came with the computer, pop it in the drive, and run a disk repair. This would be fine except for the fact that, unlike the miraculously-found manual, the CD determined to be elusive. We can't find it anywhere.

I used all the tricks in my admittedly-limited books: hard-restarting, trying to restart with a variety of (non-startup) diskettes and CDs, pressing a number of key combinations on restart... all nada. Mom has given up and is trying to reconstruct the data on her newer computer; I'm just frustrated with the whole situation.

All told, 13-year-old functioning computers are the centenarians of the digital world, the great-great-grandfathers of the modern flat-panel, bluetooth-enabled, streaming-video behemoths. Let us bow our heads and give a moment of silence for the departed...
So, it's been another few days since last I posted. I must be losing my touch. Or my time. Frankly, I've been on the move so much for the last few days that I haven't had much uninterrupted time, alone, at home in which to post.

The last few days in a nutshell )

So that's it for now. Time to surf the internet and relax. There may be some hot chocolate with my name on it later.
Okay, so I've been a bit behind in the updates. I blame this on, first, being extraordinarily tired, and second, on actually having lots of people to spend time with and thus little time for the computer. (Though still enough that Marc can make jokes about the internet being my crack.)

So, backtracking a little, here's a recap:

Toronto Day 3 (Saturday): Shoes, Tea, and Good Food )

Toronto Day 4 (Sunday): 'Montreal' Breakfast, I Kill It and Take Its Treasure )

Toronto Day 5 (Monday): New Acquisitions, The Drive Home )

And that, dear readers, was my time in Toronto. I'm glad I got a chance to do so much, though I could have done without the obnoxiousness of the drive back. But now I'm home, with practically nothing on my schedule other than Tuesday afternoon sessions at Dawson, a dentist appointment, and a bunch of holiday parties. That's it for now!
Two major events of import yesterday:

First, lunch at Massey. Yes, I dragged Marc out to my old UofT stomping grounds to have lunch with some of my friends. Most of them have since moved out of Massey and don't spend much time there anymore, but I was able to marshall them together for lunch. And a mightily fine lunch it was, too: lots of laughter and catching up, and I thoroughly enjoyed myself. I also gave Marc the 25-cent tour, and he rubbed the wart on the statue of Robertson Davies, so all is well.

Afterwards, we went to the One of a Kind Show -- a huge exhibition of artisans. I think we were there for over six hours. We had to be: there were a thousand exhibitioners. In the end, my aunts bought tons of stuff (much of it quite lovely, too). Marc and I didn't buy much -- mostly presents for our friends. HOWEVER, I did find an absolutely awesome shirt: red, tight, and sexy in an elegant way. I had to have it. Unfortunately, it was slightly outside the budget I'd set for myself. Fortunately, my aunts see "budget" as more a guideline than a strict rule, so my Aunt Ricki bought it for me. Thank you, Aunt Ricki! For posterity, there's a picture of me wearing it behind the cut. (It's not the best picture, but it's a very nice shirt. *grin*)

Click to see me in a sexy red shirt )

It took us about an hour to get back to my Aunt's place because of a huge amount of traffic (we're theorizing there was a hockey game letting out). When we did, we broke out some soup, cheese, baguette, wine, and fruit, and just generally conversed for several hours. I wound up going to bed around 12:45, and Marc joined me at some point after that. And now, once more, it is morning. Time to start moving.
It's been a long couple of days. Yesterday was Bubby's funeral, at which I gave one of the eulogies. From all reactions I've gathered so far, it seems to have gone over quite well, and I'm happy to be able to do justice to my Bubby's memory. I spent a great deal of time at the shiva house yesterday and today. (note to non-Jews: Judaism has a tradition called "shiva," which involves the close family of the deceased gathering together in one house for a week to be together and receive visitors. There are other regulations for shiva, but that's the main point. As the grand-daughter, I'm not one of the official mourners, but I still want to be there for my father, aunt, and uncle, who are.) Attending the shiva house is surprisingly tiring, given that you're not really doing anything other than talking with people and making sure the mourners have enough food.

Other than fatigue, I've been pretty good. Taught two good classes today, and only have two more to plan this week (both on Wednesday). I've been appreciating that I can do tangible things to help my family -- like driving relatives around, making sure plates and cups stay full, and simply being there to talk. Not much time online, but I'll manage somehow. *grin*

Anyway. Ian's on his way over, and we're going to head back to the shiva house. Bye for now.
My Bubby (Yiddish for grandmother) passed away tonight.

We've seen it coming for a while: she was diagnosed with Alzheimers several years ago and we knew it was only a matter of time.

But. Yeah. Most likely the funeral will be on Sunday. Nancy, this obviously means I won't be at Isabelle's party: I apologize.

I'm not distraught. Like I said, we've seen this coming for a while. On the other hand, I am sad. It's not a deep, gut-wrenching, cry-your-eyes-out sad, but a sort of more subtle sad. Also, in a sense, I'm relieved. I'm not entirely certain that's an appropriate emotion to be feeling, but I'm glad that she's not going to get any worse, that I can now sit back and remember the Bubby from my childhood, when she was in full control of her faculties.

So... yeah. That's what's new and exciting with me.
Last night, Marc and I drove up to my dad's country place -- just past Ste. Agathe. Dad had cooked the most awesome beef ribs ever, and his wife made a truly delicious apple cake. There was a fire in the fireplace, tea in the kettle, and the lovely slowed-down feeling of being in the country. I am, I will admit any day, a city girl. I love the energy of the city, the hustle-and-bustle. But being in the country for a few hours was lovely. I just wish we'd had more than three and a half hours before driving back into town again.

*stretches luxuriously*

... Right. Time to get stuff ready for teaching. Le sigh.
Point of note: don't try to do over-the-phone tech support with your 90-year-old grandfather, whose computer has an obnoxious number of glitches even before the application of human errors. It's just not worth it. Drive over and just fix the [explitive deleted] machine; in the end, it'll take the same amount of time and involve far less head-on-table pounding action.

Ugh.
Today's essay on Daily Breadcrumbs is about the obnoxious anticlimax at the end of Exodus.

First, while I won't say anything about Hallmark day, I will say this:

Happy birthday, Dad!


I realize that I didn't actually say very much about what I did yesterday, other than what I was grateful for. So now, a bit of backtracking and updating:

Behind the LJ-cut, because it's fairly long and not terribly interesting )

On the agenda for today: interview at 10:30, class at 12:30. Ideally going to Concordia or Dawson afterwards to put up my "writing tutor" flyers. Make a few phone calls. Possibly karate this evening, and possibly meeting up with Marc after that (though he doesn't know that yet *grin*).

So... off to breakfast. I need to leave in about an hour, and I should be slightly more awake for that than I am now. TTFN!

Ah, Sunday

Feb. 4th, 2007 10:24 am
Today's breadcrumb is about the win-win nature of Israelite sacrifices.

I wish I had something interesting to say about yesterday, but I don't. I re-started prepping my Europe journal to go online (if I'm lucky, I'll have it ready by the two-year anniversary of the trip... *grin*) and did other stuff around the house. Family came over for dinner, as did Marc. Family left, Marc stuck around until later. And that's about it, in broad brushstrokes.

Today I'm seeing [livejournal.com profile] northbard for the first time in a few months and then hosting a game at my place (not running, hosting). And that, as they say, is that.

TTFN.
Work today was insane. You know all that work that was hiding for the past several weeks, giving me opportunity to read and generally slack off for most of my days? All that hidden work decided to manifest. Today. I was on overdrive from the second I walked in until I left four and a half hours later. On the up-side, I think I may have finally gained a modicum of respect from the Controller, who was impressed at the amount of work I managed to handle and the speed I was able to handle it at. I actually left late so I could finish up stuff for him (which I had been told by my office-mate was low priority).

Came home, still unfed, to discover movers bringing in furniture from my grandmother's place. (She's downsizing, and so much of her stuff has passed to me). I then spent the next 45 minutes moving furniture with my mom and brother until the downstairs living room did not look like a hurricane had swept through it. On the up-side, I'll have a very decent living room set up when I move out.

Having done that, I took down my now-waterproofed tent, packed it up, and finally sat down for a half-hour of respite. Then it was off to baby-sit Ian's cat's for an hour, and then onwards to Dancing Cocks. The show was great as always -- thanks, guys!

Now, home. Finally. Off to bed. I've got stuff to do tomorrow, and I'm sure I'll remember what it is sooner or later. G'night all.
Yesterday, my step-sister, DJ Killa-Jewel, performed at one of the free shows at the Jazz Fest. She's part of a band called Microtone Kitchen, which consists of two live instruments (alternating between two keyboards and keyboard + guitar) and five scratch DJs. In the end, it's not really my kind of music, and it's not the thing I'd listen to if my step-sister wasn't performing, but I had fun anyway. My step-sister had the best stage presence of the group, by far. You can tell she's used to performing in front of people. She looked like she was having a great time, and she really connected with the (rather large) audience. Yay her!

The one question I have to ask, though: is it jazz?
Today I saw my grandmother for the first time since winter break. For those not following the tedia (plural of "tedium"?) of my life (heck, I don't blame you), my grandmother has alzheimers. I was shocked at how much she had deteriorated over the last six months, actually. She doesn't recognize me (though this is not particularly new), she's forgotten most of her words, she's lost much of her object-recognition, and she loses track of what she's saying midway through a sentence. I don't ever want to be in that situation -- ever.

She's going to be moving into a new home on Friday, the Beit Chai ("House of Life"). As her room in the Beit Chai will be smaller than her suite at the Waldorf, I will be getting some of her furniture in the move. All this means is that I've got less to buy when I move out in the near future.

After the visit, I had dinner with my dad and borrowed about 9 books from him. Some of them I've read and want to re-read, some are new (to me, anyway). It'll give me reading material for work, eh?

Also, my step-sister co-hosted today's episode of "Home Run" on CBC Radio (from 4 to 6). She's performing at one of the free Jazz Fest shows tomorrow: Microtone Kitchen, at the Scène Bell, at 10 pm. She's really good. I suggest you go. Did I mention it's free? Anyone who wants to meet up with me -- call me or comment.

And now, off to more sewing.

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