eveglass ([personal profile] eveglass) wrote2007-10-18 11:16 pm
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Death in the family

My Bubby (Yiddish for grandmother) passed away tonight.

We've seen it coming for a while: she was diagnosed with Alzheimers several years ago and we knew it was only a matter of time.

But. Yeah. Most likely the funeral will be on Sunday. Nancy, this obviously means I won't be at Isabelle's party: I apologize.

I'm not distraught. Like I said, we've seen this coming for a while. On the other hand, I am sad. It's not a deep, gut-wrenching, cry-your-eyes-out sad, but a sort of more subtle sad. Also, in a sense, I'm relieved. I'm not entirely certain that's an appropriate emotion to be feeling, but I'm glad that she's not going to get any worse, that I can now sit back and remember the Bubby from my childhood, when she was in full control of her faculties.

So... yeah. That's what's new and exciting with me.

[identity profile] troystar.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
oh no :( my condolences
*hugs*

[identity profile] jtdiii.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
I understand, we never knew if it was micro seizures or Alzheimer's with my grandmother but I know what you mean.

Hugs

Let me know if I can do anything.

[identity profile] photogeek-mtl.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
*HUGS*

I hope you'll still be at Ian's party on Saturday so I can deliver one in person!

[identity profile] freya46.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 05:23 am (UTC)(link)
(((((HUGS))) I'm sorry, Sweetie. Even though it was expected, and a good thing that she is at peace, it still hurts.

You know where I am if you want to talk or just want a hug. I'm up till about two or three if you want to call.

(((((HUGS)))

[identity profile] susieaily.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 11:29 am (UTC)(link)
My condolences to you and your family.
~Hugs~

[identity profile] alethea-eastrid.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 12:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear that. *HUGS*

[identity profile] natty77.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 12:50 pm (UTC)(link)
So sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.

Nat & James

[identity profile] gildedacorn.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
: (

[identity profile] jasmine-koran.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 02:10 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

[identity profile] kanecool.livejournal.com 2007-10-19 04:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry to hear that, my condolences to you and your family.

As for feeling relieved, that seems natural since nobody ever wants to see anyone suffer through an illness.

[identity profile] eccna.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Our condolences to you and your family.

[identity profile] balistic.livejournal.com 2007-10-20 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
*IRKAR HUGS*