I'm with you. It's the details. While I have preferences for some of the big things (and non-optional choices on others), it's the little things. I like the flip flop idea a lot. I may need to steal that one myself.

From the wedding I went to this weekend that I'm making note of: the 'rocks' around the candles-as-centerpieces were jelly belly jelly beans in the wedding colors and one of the readings was di Vinci on building arches.